Everything … Love!

Disclaimer : Fully taking advantage of Valentines Day to write about LOVE. In summary, everything is mushy’ish … haha NOT!

NEVER! Now that the rain has decided it’s gonna come down with vengeance *cats & dogs*, if it was men, it would’ve been better since it’s Valentines Day…mmhh! So I’m forced to work late and with that the I have a reason to write up something. I have no idea which one I like between the sun and rain, but for sure it ain’t the rain … as much as I want plant’s to grow and the dam to be filled with water so that KPLC doesn’t act a fool, but why doesn’t it just rain only on those portions where they need it most.

Anyhow that’s besides the point … It’s VALENTINES DAY to all my loved ones, I have probably told you “I love you” every time, if I haven’t maybe I’m too shy (don’t want to break hearts).

I’m not a firm believer of valentines day, I’ve never gotten what all the hype is about … I’m big about birthday’s and Christmas … those are the days I believe one should be showered with gifts and all the love messages…yeah! So for today, “A kiss upon the hand of someone you truly love, is more beautiful, and more valuable than any diamond or gem could ever be.”

HOWEVER, I’m a firm believer of love by all means. I don’t fear loving, if anything I love it, and I enjoy it while it lasts.

“We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, and hour, an afternoon. But that doesn’t diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.” ~ Unknown

Love leads to heart-breaks (that’s the sad part), but sometimes it’s about taking that risk and finding out where it’ll lead you, it could be your happy place, for some it actually is, if not all. If anything, I’m the kind of person who believes that if you have love, you are your happiest, you can have all the material things, but without love they are somewhat meaningless. Loneliness is a monster that eats you up, no matter how much you have.

So, if an opportunity arises, love. If it doesn’t work out, love again. Just never tire loving. Love everyday of  the year, treat the people you love well all year. My definition of love will always be come from 1st Corinthians 13:4-13

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Ahem! So incase you’d just forgotten what it’s all about, there goes. If you find yourself going against any of the above … uumm *bursts your bubble* you just ain’t in love, maybe you’re in like … or something of that sort.


“Love is friendship, friendship is love. If love fails, friendship should remain. For friendship is the foundation of love” ~ Unknown

“Somewhere there’s someone who dreams of your smile, And finds in your presence that life is worth while, So when you are lonely, remember it’s true: Somebody, somewhere is thinking of you.” ~ Unknown


“If their smile warms your heart, embrace eases you, and kiss distills all wrong done to man, then you know that you have found true love.” ~Unknown (this goes to that certain someone!)

Happy Valentines again and if you had promised your loved one (especially a girl) a date … *muhahaha*. The rain shouldn’t be a barrier. (Advice from a girl). HAVE FUN and make sure you LAUGH a lot!

Signing Off ~~~ *Kawi*

  • Wonder

    Ok kawi. No Valevale date for u I c. Even @wakarima is thinking of her mom. But me? Well m at home, didn’t go out either. Actually m now thinking of just loving my assignment.
    And this is yet another nice piece from u. I think we just dnt know how to love anymore. I dated this chick a few months ago , who thot I was too raw and unfine and full of drama. Hahahah. I said. Ok that’s fine. We parted. M just saying she wasn’t sure wat she wanted coz I think she wantd to groom me and change me instead of loving me. No thanks.

    Nway njoy got to. Happy valevale

    • @Wonder That’s a nice one, but “love your assignment” … I tried that and I just blacked out … So I loved my sleep … lol. As for the girl, I’m sure you’ll get one who ain’t tryign to change you. That sucks, but I hope your also not a kichwa ngumu (i.e Kiswahili for “Hard head”).

  • Rosemary

    Very mushy,but every word you have said in it true.

    If their smile warms your heart, embrace eases you, and kiss distills all wrong done to man, then you know that you have found true love.” ~Unknown (this goes to that certain someone!)…….just beautiful.

    • @Njoki Mushy nothing. Thanks, I know you understand this things better, especially the quote … hehe

  • Wes

    I have liked. Awww posting to my profile

    • Thanks Sweetie. Hope you had a lovely one.

  • @wonder he! I was home alone too and the only person I could think of was mom. Some girls have that habit of tryin to change a guy, to “tame” him and I agree with Kawi it sucks