Of Signs, Love and Life

Random thought : Do you ever think that God sometimes has some serious laughing moments when he listens to our thoughts?

Now, now, now where to begin! This is one of those posts I have been wanting to write for the longest time but I never know exactly how to. I know you’re probably wondering why, well, that’s because it’s about life, love and the irky relationships. If you’ve read my post before, you probably know that I’m one of those people who’s big on relationships and love, but umm not any more.

I have just come to the conclusion that I don’t understand the whole concept of relationships and chances are that I was probably not cut out for it, but since I most definitely don’t want to be a nun or celibate, I will need to figure it out some day *read sooner than later*. You know how sometimes you want to try figure yourself out without having to ask others, yeah, that’s was an epiphany I had, now that sometimes my mind is usually on an overdrive.

Ever heard of the zodiac signs?

The signs of the Zodiac can give us great insights into our day to day living as well as the many talents and special qualities we posses where you can discover a great deal of relevant information about yourself, get to know things like why you are so attached to your possessions or why you are so emotional and so on.

You can also learn as much as you can about the traits of the different sun signs and make your life flow smoother because you understand the motives behind Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra , Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces. In case you didn’t know there are 12 of them.

The funniest thing is that I used to think that these zodiac signs are the most stupid things ever. Until I grew up I got myself reading through my dear zodiac sign, Aquarius! And 3/4 if not all the things I was reading I was left in awe because that’s so me, I was like this O_O the whole time. Of course there’s those one or two things where I’m a bit different thanks to factors such as family, background, experience and so on. Then I started reading others peoples signs and I’m like, “Jeez! If I had read this stuff before”. Then I would know what I am getting myself into when dating or befriending some people and maybe it would’ve been much much easier than it was.

And the more I read them, the more I’m like how do people with such different traits even manage to be together … It’s just depressing. You know how a person whose a loner “ingoing” dates someone who’s outgoing … And the loner wants time to themselves and this other one wants to hang out with the loner (of course it would end up being annoying for both) or if it’s two loners then they’ll stay apart because they all want to be alone, if it’s two outgoing guys then there’s going to definitely be something wrong somewhere because there needs to be one who’s a bit relaxed (I’m just guessing) … see why I say I don’t get this! This is just one very random complex example.

Hahaha *evil grin* So of late I’ve been asking my friends their birthday dates or for the ones that I know, I have checked out some of their traits from the zodiac signs and guess what … some are totally matching *scary huh* but what’s better than having an idea of what you should be expecting from people? Maybe it will make disappointment easier to handle, or at least you will know what it is about them that’s going to disappoint you or make you happy and if your traits and theirs can at least get along and if not, what you need to do to compromise like be more persistent, more patient and stuff like that.

Anyway since I can’t keep running away forever, I’ll have to learn how to deal with the “completely opposite to me” people, dealing with disappointments. Considering I also have flaws, as much as I’m running from certain disappointments, I could also be a disappointment to someone … tihihi! I don’t want to grow old and alone, that’s pretty boring so can this fairy tales we used to watch when we were young just happen … Kiss a frog and it turns into a prince or the knight in shinning armor comes to save this damsel in distress. If wishes were horses, clearly weaves would be non-existent and they definitely aren’t *snaps back to reality*.

QUOTES OF THE DAY  got to be a bit positive you know :p 

“Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people change.”

“We think there is always a tomorrow, so why expose our feelings today? Why risk being vulnerable? Why take the chance? Because today, what we love, what we feel, what is real, is what we have. Tomorrow, it may all change.”

Signing Off ~~~ *Kawi*

  • In so many words you mean to say you are single. *rubs hands together* Why havent you asked my Zodiac sign? *hint* *hint*

    • Hahaha oh yeah so when’s your birthday? I’ve been pulling that on people lately, I’m sure they are thinking I’ll get them gifts.
      I’m really not single … I’m just waiting for my future boyfriend…lol, I saw something like that today :p

  • Did you just pscho analyse yourself 🙂 Well well, Astrology or any related arts can be a crutch, it’s like I reading palms of every babe I meet and using that info as my dating q & a!

    Take some risks, live a little. Trust me, you wont be single or celibate (he he) for long!

    • Lol, I think I just did. Bad thing … good thing, but I’m not all that psycho or so I think. This was just one of my moments, but that info actually does help a bit.
      Yeah, and the risks will definitely be taken at some point hehehe!

  • nkirdizzle

    I dont believe in Zodiac signs and compatibility and what not, simply because there are some traits that my sign says I am meant to have that are completely untrue and I am sure the same applies for many other people.
    Anyway we are many still trying to find our footing when it comes to relationships, hopefully we will be able to find ourselves soon..

    • I also never used to believe in them, not that I really do right now, but they are definitely giving me some insights. Everything might not match your traits but there are others which do and the same goes to other people. At least they give you a head-start in getting to know someone, then maybe you can do your 1+1’s more easily…hehe
      Yeah, that’s some consolation, hope so too 🙂

  • Wow! I like this. Well, I guess many have said what I’d have said. All I’m picking from this is that I too have a post in this direction. Problem is, its quite personal. Should I post or not?

    • I have a placard reading “POST! POST! POST!” I would love to read something of that sort 🙂

      • Haha! Sawa, wait for it 🙂

  • I think the issue of compatibility in relationships lies more in us understanding boys, and boys understanding us. In the end most men (regardless of their personality type) respond to some issues alike, while most girls respond to issues the same way. That is the lesson in progress for me 🙂 Lovely post!